Friday, April 22, 2022

Toastmasters Icebreaker speech: title?

The first time I gave an ice breaker speech was a long time ago.  


Our toastmasters club had a theme for each meeting, and on that day the theme was "Backwards toastmasters meeting"


My speech title was "I am an extraordinary person living an ordinary life".


When I announced the speech title, I sensed my audience judging me as an "arrogant" person.  I often make snap judgements about people and their social status, and life too.  I could relate.  


But, I had a plan.  I took a deep breath and started.


I had taken advantage of our toastmaster theme meeting, and structured my speech backwards.  So extraordinary were my life stances and I was the ordinary one.  


I am an ordinary person living an extraordinary life.   I am so grateful for what I have in life.


Life happened.  I stopped going to Toastmasters.  I became pregnant, went on maternity, and changed jobs.  


After a couple of years at my new place of employment, I found out there's a corporate Toastmasters Club.  I was so happy and happier when my manager was supportive of me joining the club, and happiest when I found out my second line manager was a club member.  Oh all the opportunities I could embarrass myself in front of my managers!  


I have a self defeating sense of humour.


It's a deja vu moment for me to be standing here, and giving another ice breaker speech.  Feeling all your energy through miles, cuz I am in Canada, and you are not.  It seems, and I am saying this based on my experience of two Toastmasters club, the common denominator here is positive energy. 


so my fellow toastmasters, I can't wait to start this new journey with you.  In this one I plan on identifying my sense of humour and incorporating it in the words I choose to deliver the messages.

   

Back to you!

Notes to self:  need an example to for self-defeating sense of humour.  

Thursday, April 07, 2022

Impromptu speech

 Mark Twain hit the proverbial nail on the head when he said, “It usually takes me more than three weeks to prepare a good impromptu speech.” 

I relate to this!


Today's topic: Explain Covid19 Pandemic to a five years old.

What I said:

Literally telling the story of explaining to our child about Covid19.  The only high point in the speech was using the word of the day, commiserate.

What I came up with later:

How do you explain COVID-19 pandemic to a child, without freaking her out of day to day things: like opening a door, pushing an elevator button, playing in the park, meeting up with friends.  

First approach: don't explain and hope it will go away soon.  That doesn't work.  Why?  Because the damn thing doesn't go away!

Second approach: google, Facebook, twitter: how other parents are telling their kids.  

Third approach: channel out the fear of unknown and calmly say, hey kiddo for a while we just need to stay low, keep to ourselves and find new ways to learn, and play.  It's gonna be fun, because we haven't done it before.